August 21, 2008

Living Passionately Radio Show - August 21, 2008 Episode, What's the D-Spot?

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Are you in an unfulfilling marriage, separated, facing divorce or already divorced? If yes then tune in to this week’s show as I interview Laura Campbell, founder of the D-Spot (http://www.discoverthedspot.com). So what is the D-Spot you might ask and what does it have to do with divorce? 

The D-Spot was born out of Laura's commitment to helping women who are facing the uncertainty of divorce. The D-Spot is the place where you can find the support you need while moving thru and beyond divorce. 

According to Laura, “Divorce is not an end, it is a beginning. Make sure each step you take moves you closer to creating and achieving an extraordinary life.” The D-Spot is helping women regroup, renew, and reinvent themselves, before, during and after divorce. So come along with us as we share with you how you can begin to see your divorce as a beginning rather than an end!

Tune in today to the Living Passionately: Getting Beyond Divorce Radio Show.

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August 20, 2008

Avoiding the 14 Dating Traps - Dating Trap #1: The Marketing Trap

Doesn’t it seem strange that the two things that have the potential to make the greatest and most profound impact on our lives come with no directions or training manual? When was the last time you saw relationship skills or parenting skills in the school curriculum – yet if we screw these two things up there can be major consequences. I often wonder why these skills are not considered as important as writing, reading and arithmetic. Any thoughts?
 
While you dwell on that dilemma let me get started on this week’s article. Over the next few weeks I will reveal to you the fourteen different dating traps and their solutions. Sorry no parenting skills in this series – maybe the next one. Hopefully this series of articles will help fill the relationship skills void a bit for you. These dating traps were developed by David Steele, founder of the Relationship Coaching Institute and the author of Conscious Dating.
 
The first trap is the Marketing Trap. I am sure that you can probably relate to this trap - we all have done it at one time or another, unless of course you never dated before. The marketing trap is when you present yourself to your date or potential partner in a trumped up or false way. Similarly to what advertisers do when trying to sell their products. When you fall into the Marketing Trap, you fear that nobody wants you as you really are.So you try really hard to make sure the other person doesn’t see the real you. You know ladies, pretending to like football when you can’t stand it just so you can impress your guy. And gentlemen you are just as guilty pretending to like those chick flicks to impress the girl.
 
So what happens when you start a relationship with these false pretenses, eventually at least one of you becomes comfortable enough in the relationship to let your guard down and start being real. When this happens resentment and animosity sets in right? After all he used to watch those chick flicks and now he won’t – he must not love you any more. Ever hear anyone say – you aren’t the man/woman that I knew when we first met. That is because you fell for the marketing trap or they ensnared you in the marketing trap. How do you avoid the trap?
 
You can avoid the marketing trap by being authentic. Show the world, that means your potential partner, your true self. I know, we are programmed not too because we are fearful of being rejected, but isn’t it easier to be rejected at the beginning of a relationship then after you have become emotionally entrenched? I believe we attract those into our lives that reflect who we are and if we are faking it or marketing ourselves we will attract the same to us. So my challenge to you is to be real – show the world your authentic self – whatever that may look like. Don’t fall in to the marketing trap because if you do you risk disappointment and relationship failure.
 
Need help uncovering your authentic self and avoiding the marketing trap? Then sign up for a 30 minute self empowerment coaching session today and gain the support you need. 
Be sure to come back next time when I reveal dating trap #2 – the Packaging Trap.

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August 12, 2008

Living Passionately Radio Show - August 14, 2008 Episode, From Toxic to Terrific

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Are you divorced or divorcing? What state of mind has your divorce put you in? Are you allowing your divorce to make your environment toxic? When facing divorce we can easily fall into the toxic way of thinking and being. All too often we get stuck in the unhealthy behaviors that can cause our life to spiral out of control and make us feel like victims of our circumstances.
 
If you are stuck in the toxic environment, feeling like you have no choices or your life is out of your hands, then you will want to tune in as I interview Cynthia Simpson, CTA Certified Life Coach and owner of Lighthouse Coaching (http://www.lhcoach.com) as she reveals the four most common toxic behaviors of divorce which keeps us stuck from moving forward in our healing. She will share with the listeners how to turn this toxic behavior into something terrific. So be sure to tune in and find out how to go from Toxic to Terrific.

Tune into the Living Passionately: Getting Beyond Divorce Radio Show

 

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August 5, 2008

Secret #5 - Ask for Support

So what did you discover when you started implementing secret number four - question everything you know? Were you able to turn off the auto-pilot and start questioning why you do the things you do? Did you find anything that you could eliminate? Are you starting to live your life with a little more awareness? Congratulations. You are well on your way to regaining your passion for life.
As promised here is the fifth and final secret – asking for support. Asking for support is not a sign of weakness it is a sign of wisdom. You are not meant to have all the answers. And you are not meant to go it alone. We all need support in getting clarity on what we want and need in life to make us happy. I know I did and I attribute my many successes both professionally and personally to the support I received from my life coach.
How can you regain your passion for life if you don’t even know what you are passionate about? I struggled with this question for a long time but I have discovered the secret of finding your passion for life and the discovery was so profound I needed to share it with others. So if you are ready to start getting the support you need to rediscover your passion for life so you can have all the things that you desire then ask for support. If you do you too will uncover the secret to success as I did.
Congratulations you have just learned the five secrets to regaining your passion for life. Here they are again 1) give yourself permission, 2) symptoms not the cause, 3) stop beating yourself up, 4) question everything you know and 5) ask for support. This is only the beginning of the journey. Yes you have the basis for success, but will you implement them? Will you be able to give yourself permission, uncover the cause stop beating yourself, turn off your auto-pilot and hold yourself accountable? If you believe you can awesome you are well on your way to having everything you desire both personally and professionally. If you answered no, congratulations, you are miles ahead of everyone else because you are ready to be honest with yourself and do what it takes to be successful.
Come with me on a journey to success, begin to implement the secrets that were revealed in this series and discover the remaining secrets to be uncovered….
Here is how - sign up for a 30 minute self empowerment coaching session and begin to build the foundation to regaining your passion for life. Want a copy of the entire five secrets for yourself then email me at coach@lisafredette.com and request a copy. Stop the excuses – take action and have your heart’s desire!

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July 31, 2008

Living Passionately Radio Show - July 31, 2008 Episode - Surviving an Affair

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Conservative estimates are that 60% of men and 40% of women have extramarital affairs. What causes people to have affairs? How can those affected by affairs heal? Michele Parrish (http://www.parrishpartners.biz/), Certified Professional Coach & Relationship Specialist will share insights from real life stories — people whose marriages have been destroyed or severely affected by affairs.

She will outline the common myths that our society holds about affairs and will educate listeners on how to heal from this devastating life experience. You can heal completely from an affair. Michele will tell you how. So if you have been touched by an affair and are still having a difficult time moving forward then you won't want to miss this show.

Tune into the Living Passionately: Getting Beyond Divorce Radio Show

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July 30, 2008

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July 23, 2008

Thinking about Remarrying - here is a Must Read!

Hold The Rice!

There is a new book out that you must read for every woman married to, or marrying, a divorced man. It's called Every Single Girl's Guide to Her Future Husband's Last Divorce, and it's written by my friend, award-winning author Adryenn Ashley.  A strong marriage takes love, faith, honesty, good communication, and financial planning.  Now you can learn how to make your marriage the fortress it deserves to be!

This how-to book offers smart financial advice for savvy women who want a lifetime marriage. Gone are the times when a father would grill his prospective son-in-law on the young man's intentions — and, more importantly, the state of his bank account. Today, women need to be their own financial advocates, and this book gives them the how's and why's of fiscal preparedness.  Don't worry if you've already said "I do!"  The tactics outlined in this book work whether you're about to stroll down the aisle or have already been hitched for a decade.

A Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and Certified Asset Protection Specialist, Adryenn Ashley uses her significant expertise to arm second wives with the tools and techniques needed to prepare themselves for a long, happy and financially healthy marriage to a divorced man. And the experts agree:

"A man is not a plan. You've got to be money-smart as well as heart-smart when you make the big leap into marriage. Adryenn's got some great inside tips on protecting your own financial future, and on how to shield you and your spouse-to-be from past 'ex'-periences. Every single, aspiring Wealth Diva should read the homework that Adryenn's already done–before they tie the knot." - Loral Langemeier, Master Coach, Wealth Strategist and Best-Selling Author of The Millionaire Maker book series

"Finally! A guide for second wives that teaches women how to protect their assets, their children, and their marriage. Written with a hefty dose of wit and compassion, Every Single Girl's Guide to Her Future Husband's Last Divorce is a must-read for any woman married to, or considering marriage to, a divorced man." - Barbara Stanny, Best-Selling Author of Secrets of Six-Figure Women

"In this book, Adryenn Ashley brings light to emotionally charged subjects with clarity and laugh-out-loud humor. She offers essential financial and legal information in a way that's easy to understand and apply." - Marci Shimoff, Author of Happy for No Reason,  #1 NY Times Best-Selling Co-Author, Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul, and featured teacher in The Secret.

I also want to let you know that  if you buy Every Single Girl's Guide to Her Future Husband's Last Divorce TODAY July 23rd, you will claim your bonus gifts, a second wives swag bag, if you will.

So visit http://www.marryingadivorcedman.com/ TODAY to purchase Every Single Girl's Guide to Her Future Husband's Last Divorce, and to receive all the goodies in your second wives swag bag.

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July 22, 2008

Living Passionately Radio Show - July 24, 2008 Episode - Ready to Meet your Match?

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Are you ready to find that perfect someone? Do you feel like you have tried all the latest dating and mating avenues with little or no success? Are you recently divorced and not sure how to get back into the dating game? Do you want a relationship but just don't have the time to play games? If you can relate to any of these questions and want to find the answers then you will want to tune in as I interview Ann Robbins, Certified Professional Matchmaker, Relationship Coach and founder of LifeWorks Matchmaking and Coaching (http://www.lifeworksmatchmaking.com/). 

Ann will share with the listeners why she believes LifeWorks Matchmaking is unique. Ann founded LifeWorks Matchmaking out of her own personal desire to find a better way to date after she was widowed. What Ann brings to her clients isn't theory but real life experience - she truly walks her talk. So if you’re tired of the same old dating game and are serious about finding that right partner then you won't want to miss this show.

Tune into the Living Passionately: Getting Beyond Divorce Radio Show

 
 

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July 20, 2008

Secret 4 – Question Everything you Know

So did you take me up on my challenge from last time? Have you learned to stop beating yourself up? Are you able to appreciate the experience and learn from it? Congratulations! You are well on your way to regaining your passion for life.
As promised – the fourth secret is Question Everything you Know. Did you ever wonder why you do the things that you do? I know I found myself doing things because I have always done them since childhood and never questioned why I did them. When I started on my self-growth journey I found that many of the things that I was doing no longer supported my new found authentic self.
We are all products of some type of conditioning from childhood. We learn a lot about life and who we believe we are from our childhood. Sometimes however this conditioning no longer supports us as we begin to explore the world and develop our own beliefs and values, but we fail to change the behaviors that no longer support us because they are ingrained and become automatic.
Turn off that auto-pilot and begin to live your life consciously.
Now is your opportunity to begin questioning why you do the things you do. Do you do them because they are a reflection of who you are? Are they supporting you to reach your life vision? Or are you doing them because that is what you have always done?
By not stopping and questioning why you do what you do, you end up filling your life up with actions and things that do not support you. And as a result you inevitably find that you don’t have the time to purse the things that speak to your soul.
You are not alone, not having enough time is a real problem for many - time was the second highest ranked response (42%) after money (75%) in a survey when participants were asked “what do you wish you had more of”.
Just imagine by taking a few minutes each day to ask yourself “does this action still support me or am I doing it because I always have” you will gain something that you want in life “more time”. And if you did have more time what would you do with it? Would you focus more on your business? If so then you will be getting two of the things that you say you want more of - time and money.
I challenge you to turn off that auto-pilot and start living your life consciously. Begin to question everything you do and your belief system. You will be amazed at what you gain!
Need help turning off the auto-pilot? Are you ready to start living your life consciously? Do you want more time for the things that you love? Do you need support in identifying the things that no longer support you? If so then sign up for a 30 minute self empowerment coaching session and begin celebrating your greatness!
Be sure to come back next time when I reveal strategies for secret number five; Ask for Support.

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July 15, 2008

Living Passionately: Getting Beyond Divorce Radio Show July 17, 2008 Episode - Journey from I-to-We

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Is your current relationship full of turmoil? Do you wish you could reconnect with your partner and find that love again? Have you recently divorced or ended a long term relationship? Do you want to learn how to have a more successful relationship next time? Then you will want to tune in as I interview Glenn Cohen, Certified Relationship Coach, owner of I-to-We (www.i-to-we.org) and author of The Journey from "I-to-We": Create an Emotionally Intelligent Relationship. 

Glenn will share with the listeners his theory on how conflicts begin, the reason why we have such challenges communicating with our partner, which leaves us frustrated and disappointed and the 4 key skill sets all relationships need in order to be successful. So if you want to turn your tumultuous relationship into one of peace and harmony or lay the foundation for a successful new relationship then you won't want to miss this show!

Tune into the Living Passionately: Getting Beyond Divorce Radio Show

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